What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 44
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Newtownabbey
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Stripped
What’s your current relationship status?
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
First Time Homosexual
How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand.
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Male, really feminine from Asia.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Met him at the bus station on way home from work.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We did anal and oral. He put lipstick on, a dress, stockings, silk panties, and high heels.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Sadly he goes home in two weeks. I felt amazing, hope to have as much sex as possible and to keep in touch.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My ex girlfriend
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Really exciting and amazing experience fantastic lover
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He has to go home
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, it was my first homosexual experience and I would like to have more, please.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? He had an amazing body, well equipped, and I’m feeling totally satisfied. Will miss him.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? My thoughts on casual sex are it’s really fun.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Always use condoms and be careful
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