What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Glasgow
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Programmer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was a former colleague at my job when I was a student at university. She always had her hair a really “electric” color. Sometimes pink, blue or purple. She was pink at the time of this story. She was fairly short but had huge boobs, and a really sexy, curvy figure. Her bum, in particular, was a thing of beauty. She also wore glasses that were huge on her eyes – I dunno why, but this really did it for me.
At the time we had met, we were both in committed relationships but there was a definite spark between us, and we had a couple of drunken kisses on staff nights out. Nothing serious progressed until this story though, which happened 4 years after. I had been working away in another part of the country, and had recently returned to the area and bumped into her. I was in a committed relationship at the time, but the sex with my partner was dreadful (although the rest of the relationship was great). She was recently single, although had been on a couple of dates with a new guy.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After we bumped into each other, I invited her for a drink, and we quickly got to talking. After some catching up and flirting, I was really direct and honest with her. I told her that I wanted to take her back to my flat. She finished her drink and said I beat her to the punch.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went back to my block of flats and waited for the lift. While we waited, I put my hand around her back and started to rub her ass. Someone else came to wait for the lift so I stopped. We all got in, is both standing at the back, facing the door. From in front of me, she started rubbing my dick over my jeans, which was ridiculously hard already. We got out the lift before the other person and practically ran to my door. As soon as we were inside, it was on.
I pinned her against the door and practically tore off both her and my clothes, while we kissed furiously as if our lives depended on it. I fumbled half-heartedly for the condoms in my wallet, but I couldn’t help myself and entered her as I was pushing her against the door.
She hopped up onto me, and wrapped her legs around my body, still kissing me. Her boobs were bouncing up and down on me, which was driving me wild I managed to make it the few steps to the bedroom and lay her down on her back. I continued as I had started, and thrust deep inside her – she was wetter than any women I had been with up until that point, or have been with since. She didn’t moan much, but she gasped and struggled to catch her breath, and dragged her nails down my back really hard. I felt her orgasm after a few minutes – she clenched around me tightly, and she gently stopped me for a few seconds. Then she rolled me into my back and climbed on top of me. She squatted over me, taking my full length inside her slowly, before sliding herself up, and then taking my length inside her again. She’d get faster and deeper each time, her hands running over my body, her boobs jiggling up and down (when my hands weren’t squeezing them tightly). I’m pretty sure that she came again because she stopped to catch her breath.
She lay on top of me, and we were both quite sweaty. We cuddled and kissed for a while, before going (naked) into the living room to phone a pizza and watch a movie. Later on that night, we were on the couch under a blanket, when she reached over to close the window. I stood up beside her and bent her over the edge of the couch. I squatted down and ran my tongue up her leg – from the ankle all the way to her clit. I teased her, licking her clit and sliding my tongue inside her, before eventually standing up and fucking her from behind.
This time she did moan loudly, and I could see her fingernails digging into the couch. I came this time, and it actually caught me off guard how quickly it happened. I grabbed her ass hard as I did, and I think I left handprints on her.
She turned around and got on her knees. She took my soft dick in her mouth, licking it clean, and waiting for me to get hard again. After a few minutes I was hard again, and she was sucking my dick while rubbing her breasts. I tried not to grab her hair while she sucked me, but it was really difficult. I told her that I was going to cum again, and she grabbed my ass, going even deeper down her throat. I came again, although I was pretty spent the first time so I have no idea how much she had to swallow.
We were pretty much done after that – we slept together, and she went home to go to work the next morning.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She had to go to work, so I didn’t see her again until later that week. We hooked up a lot over the next 3-4 weeks, but eventually, she decided she wanted to get serious with the other guy she had been dating.
We are both married to other people now, but we occasionally keep in touch via text. I would consider a repeat if she wanted it because it’s easily some of the best sex I’ve ever had
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one else knows that I’m aware of
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having sex with my friend, which I had always wanted to do at some stage.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I didn’t get enough of it!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? She set the benchmark for future partners. I never tell them of course, but she is still the one to beat.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nothing of note.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is super important for personal growth. It’s fun, it’s a release, and if everyone is happy about it, then why not go for it?
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great place to read stories from like-minded people.
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