What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Makati
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? loyal to my wife but never faithful
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Can’t remember
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? this will be the first
Sex With My wife’s Cousin-In-Law
How long ago did this hookup happen? a year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Medium built, long hair, big boobs, medium sized butt, married with 3 kids — got a chance to bond with the wife of my wife’s cousin several times and been wanting to fuck her since then.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Her husband had a graveyard shift while she had a chance to leave the office earlier than expected. Invited her over dinner and as expected, shared stories about life and family. My dick is so mad he wanted to fuck her already and I invited her to go somewhere else. She asked but told her to just sit in the car and let me look for a place. She felt nervous as she saw me entering a motel and asked me why we’re here? I told her how I felt and been wanting to fuck her ever since I met her.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I tried to kiss her at first but she pushed me away as she’s very loyal to her husband and she has kids. I told her to drop everything first and focus on us. Don’t think about the family and just enjoy the moment. I tried to kiss her again and my dick instantly got erected! I removed both our clothes and started to finger her. Damn, she’s wet and hot! Kissed her from the neck to her boobs, sucked her huge nipples like there’s no tomorrow! I slowly went down and licked her pussy. Removed my brief and started to fuck her missionary, damn the hot and wet pussy felt so goooooood. I fucked her harder and harder and asked her to suck my dick, she felt awkward at first but tried and didn’t last long. Bent her over and damn, those butt cheeks killed me. Fucked her from behind so hard and had to release everything inside her pussy!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We didn’t talk about it anymore. When we see each other during family gatherings, we don’t look at each other’s eyes.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The thrill, excitement and the SEX itself!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Had to cheat with my wife and her relatives
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? NO
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? If I had the chance, I’ll fuck her again during her first trimester since she’s pregnant again — this time no condoms!
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? No other way of considering it to be positive but for experience, you definitely have to try it
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good venue to voice out and share experiences to other people
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